Tuesday, August 25, 2009

How To Kiss With Passion


Step 1: Clean your mouth
Brush your teeth, floss and use mouthwash. Bad breath is the ruination of kissing. At the very least, have a mint.

Step 2: Sit w/ partner in private
Sit with your partner, preferably in private. Public displays of affection may be fun for you, but they make everyone else uncomfortable.

Step 3: Relax
Relax and clear your mind. Focus only on the person with you.

Angle your face to avoid crunching noses.

Step 4: Touch lips
Lean into the person until your lips touch.

Step 5: Be soft & gentle
Keep lip contact soft and gentle in the beginning.

Step 6: Experiment
Experiment with different movements and techniques. For instance, gently suck on your partner’s lower lip, or caress his lips lightly with your tongue.

Step 7: Use your tongue
Open your mouth enough to slowly slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth. If you get an enthusiastic response, start exploring the inside of each other’s mouth. Just remember to keep it slow and soft, not darting or invasive.

Don’t forget to breathe through your nose. Nothing ruins a good make-out like falling unconscious.

Step 8: Come up for air
As the make-out session intensifies, come up for air by kissing your partner’s face, ears, and neck, even giving them the occasional soft nip or gently tugging on their hair in the heat of the moment.

Truly passionate kissing has a sense of urgency, as if you’ve been waiting for this moment for so long that you can’t hold back.

Step 9: Use your hands
Use your hands: kissing is made complete by strokes and caresses. Try holding the person’s face as you kiss.

Step 10: Practice
Practice makes perfect.

The longest kiss in film history, lasting 3 minutes and 5 seconds, was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in “You’re in the Army Now.”

Monday, August 24, 2009

How To Make Your First Kiss Memorable

Step 1: Choose wisely
Choose the recipient of your first kiss carefully. Ideally, you’d like it to be someone you might enjoy a nice romance with, not someone who’s going to make you feel bad right afterward by blowing you off.

Step 2: Flirt
Invest some time flirting with the object of your affection beforehand. If the person is interested in you, it will build sexual tension. And if they’re not, you’ll know it before you embarrass yourself by trying to kiss them.

Step 3: Just do it
Once you’re fairly certain that your kiss will be welcomed, just do it. There’s nothing that ruins a romantic moment more than a wimpy, “May I kiss you?”

Step 4: Proceed cautiously
Gauge how aggressive you should be by your partner’s response to you. If they’re holding back—their lips firmly planted shut, their hands rigidly by their side—proceed cautiously. But if they’re panting like a dog in August, bring on the tongue.

Step 5: Break up the action
Don’t remain lip-locked until the other person is bored or gasping for breath. Break up the action by nuzzling their neck, kissing their earlobes, or gently biting their lip.

Step 6: Check a mirror
When you’re done, check a mirror. You don’t want to spend the rest of the night with lipstick smeared all over your face.

Sunday, August 23, 2009

How To Be a Good Kisser


Step 1: Freshen your breath
Make sure you have fresh breath. There’s no excuse not to these days, what with powdered mouthwash packets and disposable teeth wipes on the market.

Step 2: Vary technique and tempo
Keep things interesting by varying your technique and tempo—flick and rotate your tongue; alternate between gentle nibbling and passionate devouring; keep your lips moving over theirs.

Keep it wet but not a washout—no one likes to be slobbered on.

Step 3: Give them what they want
Give them what they want. For guys, this means kissing her neck, since 90 percent of women rate a neck kiss more stimulating than a French one. For gals, it means gently biting his lips and earlobe.

Step 4: Use your hands
Remember to caress your partner while you kiss. That’s caress, guys, not grope like a horny high-schooler.

Another tip for the men: Try holding her face in your hands as you kiss her. Women love that.

Step 5: Don’t perform a tonsillectomy
Keep your tongue in the front half of the other person’s mouth. People want to be kissed, not gagged.

Step 6: Moan softly
Don’t be afraid to moan softly and breathe heavily. There’s no bigger turn-on than knowing you’re turning on someone else.

Kissing burns 6.5 calories per minute.